Answer 4: "WHAT IF I GET AN ERECTION DURING MY MASSAGE?" --
Sometimes it happens. Yet, most men avoid massage for fear this will happen to them. Or, they get a massage but are unable to relax because of this fear. But there is no reason to be embarrassed.
Sometimes men get an erection during a non-sexual, therapeutic, full body massage. Touch administered to any part of the body can activate the parasympathetic nervous system, which can result in a partial or complete erection.
As an educated, professional massage therapist, I understand this and it will not be an issue for me. If you are still concerned, I recommend wearing more fitted underwear (briefs or boxer briefs) which provide more support than traditional boxers.
Note: If I feel that the session has turned sexual for my client, male or female, I will stop the current treatment to clarify my client's intent, and I may decide to end the session immediately.
WHEN SHOULD I NOT GET A MASSAGE?
In my opinion there are few conditions which would prevent you from enjoying massage. You should not book a massage if you have a fever, cold/flu, or contagious skin infection. That's it.
There are many other conditions in which I may need to adapt my techniques (i.e. arthritis or osteoporosis) or avoid an area completely (i.e. cuts or burns). With some conditions it is a good idea to get an approval from your physician before you receive massage (cancer, certain heart conditions, pregnancy). This doesn't mean you can't get massage. But its always better to err on the side of caution.
I can suggest modifications, based on your specific needs.
DEEP WORK PROTOCOL
My protocol for when it is necessary to use more focused and deep level work that happens to be near or close to the genitalia. I will be very clear about my actions before beginning. Your clear honest communication is required for this treatment. Slight stretches my be needed in order to reach the correct muscular, I will explain everything before proceeding.
In the case of working at the hips with a male or a female that is undressed and under the sheets. I will perform a "Diaper Drape". This is where the sheet uncovers your leg and the outer excess of the sheet is put underneath the leg and pull up toward your hips, with a snug fit for your comfort and security. You will hold the tail of the sheet to control your security of the drape at all times.
For male clients, when working on the hips and inner thigh you will be asked to hold your genitalia away from where I am working, this enables a safe treatment.
For female clients, when we are working on the chest or side of the torso, you will be asked to hold your breasts away from the area receiving work. When working on the hips and inner thigh, though the drape is secure if you would feel safer to place your hand over your genitalia as well, that is perfectly acceptable or we can use a side lying position that may be more suitable for your comfort. Feel free to ask questions always.
The pelvic girdle muscles rarely get worked on, so don't be afraid to ask for lighter pressure or anything that would increase your comfort during your treatment..
